If you're in a healthy relationship, there's room in your life for the other important people you love like your family and friends. It is such a relief to know that I am not alone, and that there are other people with a journey as complicated and sad and just as beautiful as mine. It can take what seems like forever to find the right person. But I, too, have trouble just letting my heart believe it, and living with peace in my heart and without constant fear of him leaving me. Others will look and desire, and I will give, but still hold.Because probably you spend too much time worrying about whether or not someone will love you for who you are , rather than focusing on on yourself. Sometimes we get stuck. Even though you may want to drift with the flow of love, you can’t do it or you have to pay heavily for being impractical. Remember that you can have everything that you ever wanted when you choose to give it to yourself–by saying no to anything that does not feel like a yes within your heart, by having patience for what you do want to present itself, and then by saying YES! Do not compromise with your feelings just to be with someone who doesn't care about your feelings. But over time, "When you're super close to someone, it's easy to make a critique "out of love." I have a new amazing boyfriend and I can’t believe he likes me because he’s so wonderful. He tells me that he loves me, that I’m beautiful and that I make him smile every day. All rights reserved. What did you DO to make him love you so much, and uh oh, what are you going to DO to screw it up? So take your time. There's someone out there for yoy, you just have to wait.How do I know if I'm in a toxic relationship?You will. Why do I have to question it? This from my friend The support you need to express your truth, love who you are…and see your relationships thrive. "Maybe you are OK with taking an Uber to the airport," McCurley says. So yes, show up for yourself in all of the ways that I mention in the above post, and above all, be gentle with yourself and him. It has always been my belief that there is a right time for everything. Email check failed, please try again How Can I Love Myself Past All of My Fat Rolls?I have the same problem i got this wonderfull guy in my life n he tells me he loves me all the time but i just cant accept it! I’m so happy to hear that you have found someone who is so good at loving you up–it sounds like he is a wonderful mirror for you right now of your own kind, smart, sexy, loving, funny, and generous self. They'll be with you, 100 percent because they genuinely enjoy spending time with you. Love goes deeper than just saying "I love you." They'll make the effort to check in with you on a regular basis and you'll never be left wondering when they're finally going to see you. You are always supported. They will see the light in you like no one else. You may do something that frustrates your partner, but that is no excuse for them to be putting you down in front of other people. If so, how? You will find someone who loves you more than anything, and really cares about you. Thanks for your help.You are welcome, My Love. I want to share a poem with you that I think is good medicine for you, right now. Thank you, you wonderful stranger.After a failed 23 year marriage, I finally found someone who truly loves me. That is a woman’s sexual strategy. So just do what you love and maybe you will find someone who loves the same thing.Sometimes people look for love in the wrong places. You are in love with someone that doesn’t trust you. xo :)MelissaOne of my favorite quotations that I am holding close to my own heart right now comes from Fritz Perls, founder of Gestalt Therapy, “Fear is excitement without the breath.” As the fear creeps in with your new found awesomeness, just remember to breath and feel your heart expanding to fill you with goodness and then, let it go. Because according to experts, the small things can clue you in to "A partner who loves you will respect you enough to be honest, even when it might hurt a little," Storm says. After 8 years of owning my own Soul-Purpose Astrology & Coaching practice and witnessing countless people transform their lives in deeply fulfilling ways, I've decided that I'm ready to open my arms a bit wider to include you in that loving space as well. This really helped me and that poem was a blessing. Why don’t you love the person who loves you? What should I do?How to get closure from my ex? Strange as it might seem, some people cannot co-habit with others. If we really knew how to do any better than we’re already doing, don’t you think we’d do it? While things like name calling and cheating are obvious red flags, it's the little things you should pay attention to. Ask your questions here.So, here I am sitting at my desk at work, bawling my eyes out.